RELATIONSHIP PILLS
I met a friend some weeks back who gave me a lot of reasons
to share this information with the public. After exchanging pleasantries I
realized he was not wearing his usual smile and he looked very worried and
tensed. So I quickly enquired from him the reason for his moodiness.
He started a whole series of complains and disappointments
about his relationship, and how it was destroying him. After a long chat of
encouragement I came back home and tried analyzing the issue critically.
I found out that from the scratch my friend had missed the foundations of a Christian relationship. Now, let’s understand the whole concept about a Christian relationship. A Christian relationship is like a simple circle.
A circle has lots of components, but the most important of
them all is a center of the circle and
the radius with which the circumference
of the circle is drawn.
Again the beauty of a circle depends highly on the
correlation between the center and the radius.
To obtain an absolute or a beautiful circle, the pointed end of the
compass is firmly placed at the center whereas the other end is moved to draw
the circumference to obtain the circle. The distance then from the pointed end
to where the circumference is drawn is the radius of the circle.
The radius cant be the center, and in like manner, the center cant be the radius.
GOD is the center and we are the radii.
From the diagram of the circle above, we can see that,one
point of the radius is in the center and the other touching the circumference. As an individual (radius) in a relationship,
you have to be deeply rooted in GOD and
depend on HIM to help you with drawing the circumference. if your grounds is
shaky at the center,know that your circumference will also be shaky. It is that
simple.
A strong hold on GOD who is the center of the relationship
(circle) will surely result in a nice and wonderful circle (relationship).
These things are not facts but the sincere truth, and until
we get them right , the ladies or the guys will keep breaking our hearts into
pieces.
Most people tend to change the roles and make GOD the radius
and themselves the center, making the equation imbalance. Its like asking a 2
year old child to carry either his/her mother. From our conversation he only
went to GOD when things went wrong instead of GOD stepping in when things are
wrong because HE is the center and controller of the relationship. Interesting, right!!! . If his/ her life is
centered on you, know that there is trouble ahead. Aim at being his/her radius
and you can be assured of a wonderful and happily ever after relationship.
So dear reader, play
your role as a radius and let GOD play HIS role as the center.
Thank you.
