THE RELATIONSHIP PILLS

                                                     RELATIONSHIP PILLS

I met a friend some weeks back who gave me a lot of reasons to share this information with the public. After exchanging pleasantries I realized he was not wearing his usual smile and he looked very worried and tensed. So I quickly enquired from him the reason for his moodiness.

He started a whole series of complains and disappointments about his relationship, and how it was destroying him. After a long chat of encouragement I came back home and tried analyzing the issue critically.

I found out that from the scratch my friend had missed the foundations of a Christian relationship. Now, let’s understand the whole concept about a Christian relationship. A Christian relationship is like a simple circle. 

 

A circle has lots of components, but the most important of them all is a center of the circle  and the  radius with which the circumference of the circle is drawn.

Again the beauty of a circle depends highly on the correlation between the center and the radius.  To obtain an absolute or a beautiful circle, the pointed end of the compass is firmly placed at the center whereas the other end is moved to draw the circumference to obtain the circle. The distance then from the pointed end to where the circumference is drawn is the radius of the circle.

The radius cant be the center, and in  like manner, the center cant be the radius. GOD is the center and we are the radii.

From the diagram of the circle above, we can see that,one point of the radius is in the center and the other touching the circumference.  As an individual (radius) in a relationship, you  have to be deeply rooted in GOD and depend on HIM to help you with drawing the circumference. if your grounds is shaky at the center,know that your circumference will also be shaky. It is that simple.

A strong hold on GOD who is the center of the relationship (circle) will surely result in a nice and wonderful circle (relationship).

These things are not facts but the sincere truth, and until we get them right , the ladies or the guys will keep breaking our hearts into pieces.

Most people tend to change the roles and make GOD the radius and themselves the center, making the equation imbalance. Its like asking a 2 year old child to carry either his/her mother. From our conversation he only went to GOD when things went wrong instead of GOD stepping in when things are wrong because HE is the center and controller of the relationship.  Interesting, right!!! . If his/ her life is centered on you, know that there is trouble ahead. Aim at being his/her radius and you can be assured of a wonderful and happily ever after relationship.

  So dear reader, play your role as a radius and let GOD play HIS role as the center.

Thank you.